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You Asked: I Have an Irrational Fear of Getting Pregnant

DearSugar — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 12:30:00 -0800

Dear Sugar,

I have a rather strange irrational fear. Even though I am on hormonal birth control, use condoms, and never miss a period, I continually fear that I'll somehow magically get pregnant. This fear is quite literally taking over my life, not to mention ruining my otherwise wonderful sex life with my fiancé. I desire sex with him daily, but my fear of getting pregnant is so salient that I either make an excuse to avoid it, or just fall asleep while he is making a pass at me — we end up only have sex twice a week. I have been this way ever since he and I began having sex seven years ago.

My fear comes and goes with varying degrees, but it seems that it is worse during times of high stress. Every twitch, every headache, and every gurgle in my stomach is interpreted to me as a pregnancy sign. I feel like I am so alone. I know that I'm being ridiculous, but I cannot get it out of my mind. I am almost willing to go as far as sterilization to ease this anxiety. Do you have any advice? — Freaking Out Fionna

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Love It or Leave It: Condometric

DearSugar — Mon, 03 Nov 2008 15:30:00 -0800

I happen to think that the People I've Slept With Pillowcase I stumbled upon online was rather hilarious. On the tacky side for sure, but I definitely got a few chuckles over it! I actually found another bedroom item I thought I'd share with you. It's called Condometric.

Yes folks, it's a condom that has a ruler printed on it. Now when your man brags about how big he is, you'll know if he's telling the truth or not! This calibrated condom can also be a confident way for a guy to show off what he's got when he's with someone new; you know, because penis size is one of the most important things a girl considers when finding a boyfriend! So tell me, what do you think about this condom? Is it a brilliant idea you wish you thought of, or is it just totally tasteless?

Another Missed Mother's Day Opportunity!

GiggleSugar — Fri, 30 May 2008 14:00:00 -0700

I hate to say it, but this has become one sick holiday.

(Wal-Mart, is that you again?)

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Trojan Wants You to Wear a Condom

DearSugar — Mon, 14 Apr 2008 08:00:00 -0700

Ahh, Trojan, the makers of the condoms we know and love, are beginning a campaign called Trojan Evolve. They're touring the US to raise awareness about the poor state of sexual health in America to urge Americans to petition for change. This program came about from the recent statistics that discovered one in four teenage girls has an STI — syphilis, gonorrhea, herpes, HPV, and chlamydia are all on the rise, and so are teenage pregnancies. Trojan wants to attack these issues head on — to inspire a positive movement towards healthy sexual behaviors. Check out this video to see what it's all about.

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Dear Quiz: What Should I Do if I Miss a Pill?

DearSugar — Mon, 24 Mar 2008 12:00:00 -0700

Last week you learned all about the pros and cons of popular birth control methods, so now let's test your knowledge on one of the most widely used — the pill.

For it to be 99.9 percent effective, we all know that it must be taken at the same time every day, but since we are all human, it's easy to forget. So what should you do when that happens? Take this quiz to find out if you're doing the right thing when you miss a pill.

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You Asked: Can I Make Putting on a Condom Sexy?

DearSugar — Mon, 04 Feb 2008 17:00:00 -0800

Dear Sugar,

How do I make putting on a condom sexy? I'd like to actually incorporate the condom into our sex, as opposed to making it a routine stop. Is there a way to make it fun and to not lose the momentum?

— Curious Cami

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Glow in the Dark Condoms Anyone?

DearSugar — Fri, 02 Nov 2007 17:00:27 -0700

Who isn't looking to spice things up in the bedroom? We've all tried new sexual positions (remember those Kamasutra Condoms?) and we've also tried having sex in different places in the house. We've even talked about incorporating food into our lovemaking sessions. Well, what about trying a more playful condom?

I just came across these Night Light Condoms, which glow in the dark after being exposed to light for 30 seconds. Sounds fun, doesn't it? Not only will these add some extra flair to your intimate time in the bedroom, but these Night Light condoms are also FDA-approved for preventing pregnancy and protecting against STIs.

You can order Night Light condoms individually ($1.99 each) or you can buy them in packs of three, 12, 24, 48, or even 144. Wow — that's a lot of glow-in-the-dark loving going on.

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Dumbass Of The Day

GiggleSugar — Fri, 13 Jul 2007 11:00:00 -0700

If you thought watching a grown man squeeze into an oversized balloon was ridiculous, wait until you see this dude attempt to get his head into a condom. His video is called, "How To Use A Condom!" Usually, they have a 99% effectiveness rate. You're looking at the 1% right here.

Brides: Finding the Right Birth Control

FitSugar — Wed, 06 Jun 2007 15:45:00 -0700

Now that you are getting married, you might find that your birth control needs are changing. Since you are in a monogamous relationship, you don't have to worry about contracting an STI, so birth control methods that weren't an option before may suddenly be perfect for you. Plus, you may want to think about more suitable options depending on whether or not you are planning on having kids.

If you are thinking about starting a family soon, you can continue using condoms - because they are easy. If you don't want to be bothered IN the moment the Pill or other hormonal methods are great options. The monophasic birth control pills, the Patch, an IUD like Mirena, or the Nuvaring are effective at preventing pregnancy, and you'll begin ovulating soon after you stop using them.

If kids are in your near future, and you are using a long-term method of birth control such as the Depo-Provera shot, or the Implanon insert, you may want to consider going off of these soon after you get married. It can take up to a year for your body to get back to its normal cycle. You can use one of the above forms of birth control such as the Pill or condoms, until you know you're ready to start your family. You have talked about whether the two of you want kids, right?

Of course after you say "I Do," if you and your husband are planning on getting pregnant right away, you'll want to get off any form of birth control and possibly work on charting your cycle using the Fertility Awareness Method. That way you'll know which days are the best for getting preggers.

Fit's Tips: Now that you are entering this new stage in your life, if you aren't seeing one already, than switch to a gynecologist who's also an obstetrician. It's good to build a relationship with a doctor who could deliver your future children. They'll also be able to give you advice about birth control methods that will fit with your married lifestyle.

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Sex, Lies & Desperation

GiggleSugar — Tue, 24 Apr 2007 15:00:00 -0700

It's no secret that men dislike wearing condoms, but what else is a gal to do-- trust the man when he says that a wizard "put magic" on his willy so there's absolutely no risk of pregnancy or STDs with him? That sounds about right. (Thanks, Web Junk TV!)