I just don't understand why they would deny it for so long when everyone was talking about it, i guesss they thought people would have a problem with the age gap

I also find it a little creepy that he plays her uncle in heroes!

I thought it was confirmed that they were dating? It must be weird at 30 to not be able to take your girlfriend to all clubs because she's underage.

But if they are not dating, lots of peeps have platonic friends they hold hands with.

I think in this situation it's gross. I mean, she JUST turned 18 and he's what 30. Talk about a huuuuuuuge difference and not just age-wise. I think it's creepy, and what could they possibly have to relate to other then their show/acting career?

She's most likeley a very mature 18 year old. Live and let live you know? If they are happy that is great. And bonus, they look awfully good together.

I don't think it's gross. They look cute together, and I can see the chemistry between them.

Oh yea, I didn't consider the uncle aspect. That's icky.

Twelve years wouldn't be such a big deal if she were 28 and he were 40. But there's a lot of important life stuff in the post-high school years. But they probably won't last long anyway.

he is so disgusting and not just because he's dating an 18 year old! that just makes him even worse.

i think he's going through a 3/10-life crisis lol ughh he's so cute. she's a lucky girl. i'll try not to be jealous

Ginger - I've never heard that he was the club going type. Maybe, but he seems much more a homebody. I see her as the club going type, but that's irrelevant at this point. I think they'll go the way of Kirsten Dunst and Jake Gyllenhaal when she turns 21 (maybe sooner). Only time will tell.

Oh I say just let them be. She seems very mature for her age. At least she isn't knocked up by some guy she knew for 2 months(Nicole) or strung out and possibly crazy as a bed-bug(Brit) or a train wreck like Lindsay. He is cute and she is adorable. Let them be.

I think the age difference is no big deal. Seriously...if it were hayden that was 30 and Milo was 18...nobody would care! Hayden is probably wise beyond her years and I think they look great together. My daughter is almost 19...I wouldn't care if she dated a 30 year old. Milo and Hayden both seem to have a good head on their shoulders. I hope it works out between them.

UGHHH. He's HOT and I'm jealous of her. But, I think she's probably very mature for her age. At least she's NOT out clubbing every night like Paris or has DUI's like Lindsay. I like her. She seems normal

I think they look hot together.

She is just so ate up w/ herself. And, he is clearly just tapping some 18 yr. old arse....ewwww!

I'm so disturbed by this...

damn! i am so jealous!

I'm sorry, I don't care how mature she is the experience gap between a 30 year old man and an eighteen year old teenager is just to much

thats so hot. i don't think she's your normal 18 yr old. but good point-he does play her uncle! thats weird.

good for them...she is of age and life is just too short to be consumed with things like an age difference

ew.

Eh. Live and let live, you know? Who am I to judge? It's legal and consensual. I, personally, wouldn't want to date an 18 year old at my age, though.
As for getting into clubs, she's a famous actress; I think she can pretty much get into any club she wants.
Plus, if she's dating Milo, maybe she's staying away from Paris.

whatever, don´t care.. its not me with milo.

ummm...okay.

Honestly this is my least favorite new couple. They are gross together. First off I think she is very immature and into herself. A few years ago I saw pics of her when she was really young with Stephen Colletti at a party acting like an idiot. I don't think she is mature for her age. I think she is gonna be the next Lindsay Lohan. Milo is currently not thinking. How can you go from dating Alexis Bledel to dating her. I guess he just likes to date all his co-stars. I used to be a huge Milo fan but with this news I am definitely not one.

He knows he is too damn old for her.

they are cute together in my opinion... Milo doesn't look 30, though.

why is this 'gross'? don't be silly. i mean yes, a 12 year age difference sounds unappealing, but i think there's a lot more to consider. the fact that they work together a lot, and are around each other a lot, they're friends, so its nothing to be freaked out by. IF THEY CAN BE FRIENDS, THEY CAN DATE. besides, they both seem to have a good character, its not as though hayden is out with a 30 year old hobo without a job and greasy hair. let's move on.

I am actually not all that bothered by this. They seem to be mature about it and seriously who are we to judge? If people are happy that's all that matters. Yes she's young, and yea few years ago (when she was What 15????) i'm sure she was acting out being a young girl. But all the limelight and work she's been doing lately I think has cause her (like most young starlets) to grow up faster than most girls her age.

I think it's too big of a difference. She should experience life with people her own age. At 18 it's a big gap, she has a lot of emotional growing up to do.

Not gross at all.

She mature beyond her years.

So what?

Why can't she grow up emotionally with Milo?

It's not like these two are going to marry, maybe it will only last a few months.

I'd do him.

I'm will all those that don't mind the age gap and the fact they are dating. And yeah, he plays her Uncle on their tv show, but that's just it, it's a TV Show.

Like I've posted before, their family seems fine with it, they seem to like each other, they haven't gotten married in Vegas over the weekend. If you don't approve of an 18 year old dating a 30 year old, then don't do it or allow your 18 year old to do it.

Hulla, LOL!!! I second that!

umm....I guess it's kind of a big age gap but there are more important things to get stressed over in life!! they seem happy, it's not illegal....who cares????

I thought he was dating Emmy. As far as their age difference, big whoop.

I don't think she's mature, but he's probably attracted to her because a) she's hot, and b) he is still young at heart (translation for he's holding onto youth whichever way he can). And between the two of them, I actually like her more. Rumours have it that he had beaten Alexis Bledel when he dated her!

Joely Richardson (Nip/Tuck) is/was dating the younger actor, John Hensley, who plays her son. She's 42 and he's 31. Now *that* is creepy.

It creeps me out a little bit. But I guess i have heard too many nasty men say things like "if theres grass on the field" etc. Maybe their situation is fine, but it is such a gray area. I had friends that dated older men in high school, and most of them ended up emotionally scarred.

I think that is far more acceptable to exploit young women than to exploit young men in our society. You only need to see the huge lack of progress in R.Kelly's child preditor cases to see how our society works.

They aren't dating anymore LoneWolf.

But I hate this new couple. Mostly because I can't stand that Hayden girl.

milo was the only thing i liked about gilmore girls..
he`s so hot.. mmm mm mmm...
he should be dating megan fox instead though...

30 dating an 18 yr old - not cool! it wudn't hv mattered if he were 40 and dating a 28 yr old, but 18...uhhhh

I'm not saying she's immature...just the opposite. She mature for her own age which is 18! I went through this with my daughter and she grew up way too fast and regrets it now.

Ladies, umm, aren't we more mature than men? I have dated much older men, and some of them acted like children. Ha. I also believe through watching Hayden's interviews that she is very level headed and I see that she isn't one of those party whoring celebrities. I have no clue about Milo. I don't watch t.v. so I have actually never seen Heroes. But he looks like a protective guy, not immature looking, although he does NOT look 30.

barely legal and 30?? seriously, that's kind of "odd". it isn't the 12 years age difference it's the stage of life they're at. a 30 year old prom date? she's doing adukt things for the first time so that makes him a sort of father figure in the relationship. was she 17 when they started dating, lol. guess he'd deny it to stay out of jail.

It's not that bad, I think over 20 years is creepy